Who Is Kash Patel's Girlfriend, Alexis Wilkins? How They Met and How She Became a Capitol Hill Press Secretary

Kash Patel, a former Trump administration official, has been making waves—not just for his political influence but for his recent appointment as FBI director. However, beyond his career in Washington, there is growing curiosity about his personal life, particularly his relationship with country singer turned Capitol Hill press secretary Alexis Wilkins.

So, who exactly is Wilkins, and how did she transition from the world of country music to a high-profile role in politics? Here's a closer look at her career, her relationship with Patel, and how she continues to balance both.

How Kash Patel and Alexis Wilkins Met

According to the Daily Mail, country music star Alexis Wilkins, who was spotted seated behind Kash Patel during his confirmation hearing as a show of support, is his girlfriend. Sources revealed that the couple first met at a ReAwaken America event in October 2022.

They began dating in January 2023, and Patel's relationship status became a talking point during his confirmation hearing on Thursday. Now, two years on, the couple remains committed to their relationship.

Alexis Wilkins' Journey to Capitol Hill

Wilkins is a multi-talented artist, working as a country music singer, songwriter, and media personality. Born in Boston, Massachusetts, on 3 November 1999, she spent part of her childhood in England and Switzerland before her family relocated to Fayetteville, Arkansas. Later, she moved to Nashville, Tennessee, to pursue her musical ambitions.

Despite stepping into political circles, Wilkins has not abandoned her music career. She has taken on the role of Press Secretary for Representative Abe Hamadeh (R-Ariz.), while still splitting her time between Washington, D.C., and Nashville. She intends to remain active in the country music industry even as she navigates her new political role.

A Nashville-based country singer, Wilkins has shared the stage with renowned performers such as Sara Evans and Lee Greenwood, famous for his patriotic anthem God Bless the USA. Beyond music, she has established herself as a prominent conservative voice, delivering speeches at the Reagan Ranch in California and at Young America Foundation events.

Wilkins is also actively involved with the John Wayne Cancer Foundation and is a spokesperson for the conservative platform PragerU. Additionally, she hosts a podcast called Between the Headlines on Rumble.

A Budding Music Career

Wilkins' passion for music started early. She wrote her first song, Higher Than the Mountains, in 2008 at just eight years old. Her official debut single, Holdin' On, was released in March 2020, showcasing a blend of classic country and modern storytelling.

Her debut EP, Grit, released in April 2023, quickly climbed to #4 on the iTunes chart. Featuring tracks such as Heaven in a Stetson and Country Back—which peaked at #2 on the iTunes country chart—the EP has amassed over one million streams across various platforms and garnered praise from top music publications.

Balancing Music, Politics, and Romance

Wilkins is a strong advocate for veterans, working with organisations such as Warrior Rounds, Operation Stand Down, and A Soldier's Child. She has also performed for hospital patients through Musicians on Call, using her talent to bring comfort to those in need.

Alongside her music and political commitments, Wilkins is a regular media commentator, appearing on various conservative outlets. She holds a Business and Political Science degree from Belmont University in Nashville, where she graduated with honours.

Today, Wilkins continues to juggle her music career, political aspirations, and advocacy work, striving to keep patriotism and traditional country values at the heart of everything she does.