White House sparks fierce outrage after omitting husband of Luxembourg's gay PM from photo caption
'The omission of the First Gentleman of Luxembourg name is blatantly disrespectful,' a Facebook user said.

The White House has triggered a fierce row online after omitting the name of the husband of Luxembourg's gay Prime Minister Xavier Bettel, from the caption to a photo featuring the spouses of Nato world leaders attending this week's summit. The official White House Facebook page posted the photograph taken by Andrea Hanks on Saturday with a description that included the names of the nine other political spouses, except for First Gentleman of Luxembourg Gauthier Destenay.
Destenay is a Belgian architect who married Bettel in 2015 after Luxembourg legalized same-sex marriage, making Bettel the first openly gay European Union government leader to marry his partner.
The photo caption was later edited nine hours. The White House did not explain why the original post failed to include the first gentleman.
Destenay's presence in photographs as the only First Gentleman among the Nato spouses during the summit captivated the Internet this week.
However, many social media users who noticed the embarrassing photo caption gaffe on Facebook immediately slammed the White House saying his exclusion was disrespectful, ignorant and homophobic. They also pointed out other errors in the description including the date and the inclusion of Melania Trump's name twice.
"The omission of the the First Gentleman of Luxembourg name is blatantly disrespectful and just goes to show the level of idiotacy of this White House staff", one Facebook commenter wrote.
Another wrote: "Wow. No mention of the Luxembourg spouse? He still exists even if you try to ignore the fact he is a homosexual you dimwit."
"So wonderful to see a first husband! So sad the White House is either too ignorant or too petty to actually name him. #stayclassy" one user wrote.
The Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) also commented saying: "What about Luxembourg's openly gay First Husband?"
Is there a reason the @WhiteHouse didn't include the First Gentleman of Luxembourg in this photo caption?
— Scott Bixby (@scottbix) May 27, 2017
Like, a non-homophobic one? pic.twitter.com/W89mQzFDaq
@WhiteHouse The Prime Minister of Luxembourg, Xavier Bettel, married Gauthier Destenay two years ago. Or, as the White House might put it, âmarried.â pic.twitter.com/MwOl8G2BRI
— Scott Bixby (@scottbix) May 27, 2017
@simoncurtis @scottbix @WhiteHouse Also, does that say May 25, 2917?! How many errors can one caption hold? *sung as Ariel*
— Andy Swift (@AndySwift) May 27, 2017
@scottbix @WhiteHouse The idiots in the White House added Gauthier Destenay, but still think it's the year 2917. Does anyone in the Admin have an IQ over 40?
— BikerBecca (@BikerBecca) May 28, 2017
@scottbix @stinMk @WhiteHouse I thought by the year 2917 we'd have made more social progress than this.
— Russell Semmel (@rsemmel) May 27, 2017
@scottbix @simoncurtis @WhiteHouse Also, the WH is now conducting itself like a pouting infant.
— ðºð¸Chad ðºð¸ (@hopeful42017) May 27, 2017
@scottbix @WyoJudyShepard @WhiteHouse Forgot to override Auto-Disrespect
— Louis Sisneros (@LouisSisneros) May 27, 2017
@scottbix @WhiteHouse pic.twitter.com/5ckMWY8ADl
— FilmColossus (@FilmColossus) May 27, 2017
White House refuses to list Luxembourg First Husband in photo of spouses. What's wrong with these people? I'm disgusted. pic.twitter.com/as0JU62Ryy
— ian bremmer (@ianbremmer) May 27, 2017
It took the White House 9 hours to acknowledge that the husband of Luxembourg's gay prime minister was in a photo. https://t.co/UMFtIp91rq pic.twitter.com/7x1OwhKYmo
— Chris Geidner (@chrisgeidner) May 28, 2017
@cameronesposito The incompetence is staggering.
— Sammy (@Sammy67946657) May 27, 2017
Have they changed the date on the inauguration photo yet?
Who's the official proof reader? DeVos?
@cameronesposito It's like they are thinking of the worst thing they could do with everything... and then doing that thing.
— Knot Hate Project (@KnotHateProject) May 27, 2017
Nope. These things are carefully planned & worded with purpose (& with White House senior staff sign off). Nice job @IvankaTrump! https://t.co/UtERfly8VE
— Kal Penn (@kalpenn) May 28, 2017
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